Law Of Attraction Parenting Advice
I resonate most strongly with the teachings of Abraham through Esther Hicks. So I am aware that a lot of my issues are centered around being out of my own Vortex, and that the 3 sons I have are great reminders of that.
Yet I find the auto pilot response to their behaviour seems to step in, and there are a lot of buttons being pushed in me on a constant basis, which is exhausting.
They are very determined as individuals, and I have encouraged them to trust their own inner guidance, which they would do anyway.
I have found the greatest challenges have arisen by dealing with the others, meaning the schooling system, psychologists, specialists etc. My middle son Remy who is 9 has a lot of so called learning difficulties, social/emotional issues and sensory processing disorders.
But he is quite complex to them as he cannot be diagnosed with anything specific. Which I am grateful for as he clearly has not come to be boxed by anyone.
So ultimately, despite all the therapists I have dealt with there is no one who can help on that level, and I am more than aware that there are a lot of shifts in myself I can make to assist with these children, I just need to remember it all and do that Abraham Style work on a daily basis.
I would love some input, as they get older there are some tricky habits being played out by both myself and them. I find a lot of solace in surfing You Tube for Abe-Hicks videos, which inspire me, but just at the moment my energy resources are a little low, and the frustration can set in, particularly when I know what to do, but can't seem to get in a rhythm of applying it.
Sometimes it feels like 2 steps forward, 1 step back, but at the same time I remind myself that they are not a problem, they're a massive opportunity for
growth, and I can honestly say the learning curve I have had with them over the last 10 years, has been beyond my wildest dreams.
They have encouraged very open minded thinking on my part, and will continue to do so. I am always amused, that the practitioners I have met with over the years, whether mainstream or alternative have all found their issues quite challenging, right at the forefront some say, and they are extremely aware.
Alas I have some determined pioneers, which I honestly would say that I asked for on some level, but I need to be constantly reminding myself that life does not give me more than I can handle, however some days I don't believe that.
So if you have any input it is very much appreciated.